How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

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The first 500 people to click this link will get a 2 month free trial of Skillshare: https://skl.sh/tsol3People-pleasing behavior, while ostensibly pleasant, causes enormous difficulties for us, especially in relationships and in love. We need to grow better able to disappoint others, and to stop fearing calamity when we do so.For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2GWIpTNJoin our mailing list: http://bit.ly/2e0TQNJ Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2v7etmzDownload our App: https://bit.ly/2JGOpBZFURTHER READING“Being someone who pleases people sounds, on the face of it, like a very good idea. But it is a pattern of behaviour riddled with problems, as much for the perpetrator as for their audience; the people-pleaser is someone (who might at times be oneself) who feels they have no option but to mould themselves to the expectations of others, and yet, harbours all manner of secret and at points dangerous reservations and resentments. They act like the perfect lover when their real feelings are far darker; they give their assent to plans they hate; and they confuse everyone around them by failing to express, in due time, with the requisite courage, their authentic needs and ambitions...”You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2JDQ0shMORE SCHOOL OF LIFEVisit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2GRZJNUWatch more films on SELF in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLselfYou can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_... Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/an... SOCIAL MEDIAFeel free to follow us at the links below:Download our App: https://bit.ly/2JGOpBZFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschoolofl... Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschoolof... CREDITSProduced in collaboration with:Marcie LaCertehttp://marslizard.net/

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